dreaming wide awake...

Was reading a book awhile back and ran across this passage.  Kind of made me think about all the stuff that's happened over the past few years...

"I changed the rules on her partway through our marriage, and I was so anxious to finally become the real me that I didn't stop to think about what those changes would do to her--or to us.  I think she honestly tried to like it here, but she couldn't."

--from Let It Snow, by Sherry Lewis

I think that is rather accurate, to be honest....